Seeing Dr. Phil From Different Angles…


                          Thanks to Karen Geiger for permission to use this Photo.

I really enjoyed Seth Woolf’s response to Deb’s solid commentary on his previous post. Since we don’t yet have our comments section clearly displayed on this blog, I’ve posted this conversation as an original post for everyone to see and engage. What are your thoughts?

From Deb: 

Dear Sir — I believe you have missed the point of what Dr. Phil has been trying to achieve. As young people, typically all of us do not realize the consequences of actions. I can indicate to you that as a owner of a company, these kind of posting would stop me from hiring an individual, no so much as their right to participate in such activity, but in that the judgment of said individual is not who I want representing my company. In short…it is that simple and professionally said individuals are limiting their options later in life, as they age and realize that childhood was not meant for public display. 

From Seth: 

It is perhaps true that I have “missed the point of what Dr. Phil has been trying to achieve” but, if so, it is because I find his aims pointless. I simply feel the cause and effect of this situation has been confused. If employers look down on such technological behavior and confessionalism, I think it says more about their own bourgeoise biases, and less about the quality of the candidates. More importantly, I would also like to counter your claim that “As young people, typically all of us do not realize the consequences of our actions.” This is a sweeping statement about young people, one which I do not follow. For one, I don’t see “young people” as a definable, homogeneous group. I’m 22, am I a young person? What about a twelve year old in Auswitz? What about an eighty year old with the mental capacities of a person one tenth his or her age? Is it for individuals to decide, society, or who? Similarly, I don’t see how a person, regardless of age, could realize all the consequences of his or her actions. Everyone, again regardless of age, must simply act with what information they have at a given moment. As a current grad student, and recent ungergraduate, I can tell you “young people” are not naive to this issue. They are constantly warned that employers look at these sites by their parents, administrators, advisors, school newspapers, and friends to name a few. Society’s change. There just might come a time when the public demands businesses and industrial leaders to comply with the transparency currently voluntarily exhibited by welcoming and honest (if not morally impeachable) facebook users. How will your company fare then? And the children? 

Thanks to Seth and Deb for opening us this dialogue for us!

Ryan Rode
Ashworth University

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One Response to “Seeing Dr. Phil From Different Angles…”

  1. Dear Seth Says:

    I Am with you. it is not how old a person may be it is the knowledge that though the years and situations, they have managed to aquire.

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